You're Not Stuck. You're Solving the Wrong Problem.

There's a particular kind of exhaustion that comes from doing everything right and still not moving. You've done the reflection. You've talked to people who know you well and people who've made similar moves. You've consumed the content. Some of it has been genuinely useful. None of it has closed the loop. Most people at this point decide the problem is bigger than they thought — more personal, more complex, requiring more time or more information before they can move. That conclusion is usually wrong. The problem isn't bigger. It's been misnamed. What looks like a clarity problem, a motivation problem, or just a really hard decision is often something more specific: a repeating pattern that runs one level below where most of the tools you've been using can reach. The pattern uses your own intelligence against you — your research, your reflection, your willingness to keep examining the question — to sustain itself. More of the same doesn't interrupt it. Naming the right problem does. In this 30-minute session, you'll understand why the approaches you've tried haven't moved this, what has actually been running underneath the stuckness, and what becomes available when the real obstacle finally gets identified. What you'll leave with: - A clearer picture of why this has stayed open as long as it has — and why that's not a personal failing - An understanding of how your own thinking has been sustaining the loop without you realizing it - A first step that's aimed at the actual problem, not the surface one