Date Smarter: The Reset
Feeling stuck in your dating life? Maybe you're burned out, overwhelmed, or simply feeling like you don't have any "good options." If dating has turned into a drag (or something you find yourself wanting to avoid altogether), this reset is for you. This series will take a comprehensive approach to revamp your dating life, including: -Getting clarity and confidence in your dating goals, so you aren’t just waiting to “see what happens” -Identifying roadblocks, challenges, and gaps in your dating toolkit -Practical strategies for meeting people in person (and having fun doing it) -Using dating apps to actually get high-quality offline dates (and de-centering them from your dating approach) -Making dating a sustainable and enjoyable part of your already full life (instead of something you dread) -Making relationship progress with the right people (and saying goodbye to the wrong ones) We'll meet once per week for 1-1 sessions, with both reflective and action-oriented homework in between. Along the way, you'll have me as your "personal wingwoman" to give you structure, cheerleading, and accountability as you go.
What's included
This comprehensive series will be guided by your personal goals, strengths, and opportunities for growth. My coaching style is in equal parts empathetic and action-oriented. I work to develop compassion for and rapport with all of my clients, while identifying concrete steps to make change. This process is deeply collaborative and provides opportunities for major personal discovery.
- Deeper clarity on the kind of relationship you're seeking to build
- Identifying roadblocks and developing strategies to move through them
- Strategies for dating offline with confidence
- Strategies for using online dating tools effectively
- Practical tools and mindset strategies to make dating more fun and more sustainable
- Skills for making relationship progress in early dating
Meet your expert
Elle W.
Date smarter (and have fun doing it)
I'm a certified dating coach who works with clients who want to not only date "smarter" but also have more fun along the way. I received my B.S. and M.S. in Management Science & Engineering from Stanford University, and combine that with nearly 10 years of experience in hospitality for an approach that's both deeply strategic and informed by my intuitive understanding of people. Love might be something that human beings can do innately, but dating is a skill that is learned (and can be taught). Most of us were never given an education on how to date and relate effectively, and can feel adrift when it comes to finding and maintaining some of the most important relationships of our lives. I spent years "in the trenches" myself, struggling through loneliness, bad dates, ghosting, heartbreak, and my own missteps. I also realized I wasn't alone--nearly all of my peers, no matter how attractive or accomplished, were struggling right alongside me in their own private ways. I dedicated myself to learning to date more effectively, and along the way actually learned to enjoy the process of meeting new people. I later became certified as a dating coach, and feel immensely privileged to be able to help others find their own way. Although I'm now happily married, I've never stopped loving helping other people connect.
